Understanding Marriage!
— Class Open to All Women

A Wife’s Demands; or, What Makes

Insisting Right or Wrong?

 

SATURDAY AUGUST 2 • 11AM - 12:30PM

Taught by There Are Wives:
Consultants Barbara Allen, Anne Fielding, Pauline Meglino


In this exciting class women learn the basis for a kind, successful marriage—and it is the most romantic and practical thing for a wife to know: “The purpose of marriage is to like the world,” Eli Siegel explained definitively. He also identified the thing that hurts, even ruins married life: it is that “people have tried to love in a way that would mean less like for the world—in fact, a contempt for it.” The upcoming class will discuss these sentences:

Insistence is what we all do. Like other aspects of mind, it can be good and bad. We have a possibility of insistence on having our way and to hell with everything else. We have also the insistence—which is the good thing in people—on liking ourselves and understanding things. A wife can insist on an attitude that she has to her husband, and an attitude her husband should have to her. We have to understand how we can insist on something which is as necessary as a hole in the head. [From Mind and Insistence by Eli Siegel]

Fee $10


 

THE GREATEST PLEASURE a person can have is to be able to like the world on an honest basis, and every Aesthetic Realism class teaches how! There are classes in poetry, music, acting, anthropology, education, the visual arts. One of these classes is described below. Each class is based on these principles stated by Eli Siegel, the founder of Aesthetic Realism:

1. “All beauty is a making one of opposites, and the making one of opposites is
what we are going after in ourselves.”

2. “The greatest danger or temptation of man is to get a false importance or glory
from the lessening of things not himself; which lessening is Contempt.”

 


 

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